She is a stern taskmaster. She wants things just so and will loudly advise when they are not in that state. She is the judge and jury of our actions, and she is the one who makes the rules, She is kind and loving, but you fail her at your peril. And when she wants something, she is not one to wait for it. She expects action and not excuses. And that, we know, is life with our cat, who directed me to delete this paragraph. So please don’t tell her I still have it.